Kenneth J Kearney

A tribute to Kenneth J Kearney

I remember the photograph of dad with the long striped 1920's retro swimming suit. He would only do something like that for mom.

I remember the time he laughed so hard when I asked him a question a young boy would ask. I asked if he brushed his teeth when he was little like George Washington had. I had just learned that George Washington had brushed his teeth by chewing on a stick to make it soft and then using that stick for a toothbrush. I had never before, nor have I since, heard my dad laugh so hard.

I remember the time when I was about 16 or 17 when he gave me one of the many preisthood blessings I had received, and was to receive from him. That was the first time I had felt close to him since he and my mom were married.

I remember seeing the creative, fulfilled Ken Kearney in his advertising office leaning over his drawing board, with scraps of paper all over the floor and a desk filled with art supplies.

I remember a discourged and probably depressed Ken Kearney after moving to St. George and trying his best at Real Estate.

I remember the delicious homemade bread he made. He used his mother's recipe. He sold his bread to the retired, snowbird community in Washington, Utah. I'm sure that helped him maitain some of his dignity while he struggled with his career in St. George.

I remember that the one thing that dad did consistantly for as long as I have known him. He was constantly driving his children places they needed to go. He did that until just a few years ago when he finally was forced to slow down.

I remember the unique and special bond he had with my younger sister Sommer. Sommer, as most of you know, was our blessing from heaven. She was severly handicapped with Down's Syndrom. She had a special love for her dad.'

I remember the very few times when Dad was able to pursue the interests he enjoyed - painting and golf. I hope he is doing lots of both of those things now.

I remember that Dad's life revolved around his family. Yes, he could be grumpy and most often was. But he raised two families and came from an era when you just got things done and didn't complain about it.

He served as a bishop, he served his country in the World War II. His life was literally spared many times. He touched many lives.

I am proud to be his name sake - Kenneth Brett Kearney. I am proud of my natural father, Kenneth Roy McLean and am fortunate to have two wonderful fathers who I know love me and my family.

I heard Dad say one time that his favorite hymn was "I Need The Every Hour." What I will remember most about Dad is that although he was imperfect he understood the Lord's plan of happiness. He knew he needed the Lord's help to raise and provide for his family. He knew he needed the Lord's help during the war and while serving as Bishop. I'm glad that he taught me that I don't need to be perfect to obtain the Lord's blessings - I just have to try.

I love you Kenneth J Kearney. Thank you for accepting me as one of your own.

Dianna

Dianna is in Utah for her dad's (Grandpa Drawe's) funeral. Abbey and I are rediscovering how much she means to us. Abbey and I were invited to a New Years Eve Party by one of the families in our ward. We showed up at the right time and the right place to discover the party was the night before. This kind of thing doesn't usually happen when Dianna is here. So, as a tribute to Dianna below is a list of some of the things I love and appreciate about her.

She knows where, what time, and what day we need to be to places.

She is always thinking about the needs of others.

She makes our house a home.

She has a simple and elegant way of saying things - I love her writing.


She knows just the right thing to say to make Abbey feel better when she is sad.

Her cooking is fantastic.

Her presence is soothing to me.

I can "really" talk to her.

Her kisses really send me.

I love you Dianna

Daddy Daughter Talk

This morning I wanted to have a heart to heart talk with Abbey. Dianna and I have been very concerned about how difficult it is here for Abbey to play with her friends. Unlike home, she can't just run out the door and go over to a friend's house. Anytime she wants to play with a friend we have to call parents and make arrangements then take what can be as long as a half hour trip through Doha traffic. It is important for little girls to have best friends.

Using my best caring-parent-voice I asked Abbey to come sit on the chair facing me so we could talk. I assumed that by inviting her this way she would know that I wanted to have a special and meaningful talk. She hopped up on the chair and said, "Yeah, bro?" This really set the tone for our little talk. I poured my heart out telling her how concerned I was about the friend situation. I told her how important I thought it was for little girls to have a best friend. I explained that if she was having difficulty with this that would be reason enough for us not return to Doha next year. I was very sincere and caring and half expected a very emotional response from her - maybe even some tears. She looked at me and said, "I want to come back next year."

Abbey's social development was one of the top considerations in our decision to come here. We felt very good about her ability to make friends and be socially well-adjusted. That has proven to be very true. She has made a lot of friends at school. She has a lot of fun playing with them there.

I'll try not to worry about her so much any more. It is a blessing to have children to worry about.

Jordan

We just spent an amazing seven days in Jordan. We saw some spectacular sites, ate some local cuisine, and experienced the culture first hand.

We were greeted at the airport in Amman by Ahmad (right) and Abed. Ahmed is the brother of one of my co-workers. He was a very gracious host. He speaks pretty good English, but we did have some difficult moments trying to communicate. Abed was our driver. He speaks only a few words in English. At one point Ahmed turned to us to translate what Abed had just said. He started speaking in Russian. After a few phrases you could see in his face the realization he was not speaking to us in English. That was a funny moment. This picture was taken overlooking the valley just outside of Jerash.

We spent the second morning in the Roman ruins of Jerash. I have to say that as an architect it was a thrilling experience. Honestly I was close to tears. In school we studied the masterful proportions of the Greeks and Romans. But to be in the actual spaces was spectacular.

Here we are standing at Hadrian's Arch (shown above). This is the gateway to the city.

It was a perfect day to be there. The temperature was perfect and the sun and the clouds were making a play of light across the city. Here Dianna and Abbey are standing at the entry of the Oval Plaza.

We listened to a Crazy Jordanian Scottish Pipe Band in the South Theatre. The acoustics were amazing.

Abbey standing in front of one of the largest columns gives some perspective of the size. Abbey had a lot of fun here.

This picture was taken in the outer perimeter of the North Theatre.

This is the same spot looking into the Theatre. The acoustics are incredible. Dianna sat near the entry here and Abbey stood on the stage near where the man in the picture is. She could hear us whisper from there.

For two of the six nights we stayed at the Movenpic Hotel and Resort at the Dead Sea. That is the most luxurious place we have ever stayed. This is one of the 4 pools at the resort. The gardens were very refreshing as well.

From our hotel balcony you could look across the Dead Sea and see Jerusalem on the top of the mountain on the other side. That was stunning.

Here we are at the River Jordan near the spot where they believe Jesus was baptized. Across the river is the Israeli visitors' center. They have an armed guard on the Jordanian side and the Israeli border patrol comes to the other side every few hours.

Our next stop was the lost city of Petra. You may recognize this from the Indiana Jones movie. We rode camels around the opening in front of the most famous building in Petra. That was definitely a highlight.

Even though the Bedouins don't live inside Petra anymore there was enough activity to sense a little bit of what it must have been like not too long ago.

This is a picture out of our hotel window in Amman. I thought of Amman as a rolling sea of white buildings. There are very few modern buildings. This kind of landscape goes on for miles and miles.

Even though there were some very unpleasant moments on our trip we had a fantastic time. We are so glad we were able to go.

I.M. Pei

For some time I have been looking forward to the opening of the Museum of Islamic Art here in Doha. I was excited for many reasons. The greatest of which is a chance to see a building designed by the world renowned architect I.M. Pei. The VCU Qatar Interior Design department faculty and students were invited to a panel discussion in honor of Mr. Pei. We went this morning, knowing Mr. Pei would not be at this event. He was at the big grand opening last night. At the beginning of the panel discussion we were informed that he might join us later in the discussion. About 10 minutes into the discussion the speaker said, "I have been informed Mr. Pei has joined us." The audience immediately started clapping. I looked to my right (I was sitting at the end of the row) and there he stood, right next to me. In my mind I thought, "the world famous architect, I.M. Pei is standing right next to me, I should take a picture." I pulled out my camera and only had time to take a shot "from the hip"and shoot the picture without looking through the view finder.

So I now have a lovey picture of Mr. Pei's jacket lapel and buttons as proof that I was next to him.

I was able to take a picture of him at the luncheon afterwards. (The lunch menu itself was worth going for.) I probably could have had my picture taken with him but so many other people were doing it so I didn't want to bother him.

Girl Scout

Yesterday Abbey was inducted into the Girl Scouts of America. There was a flag ceremony, including the pledge of allegiance, a skit, then the actual induction. This photo shows Abbey with one of her leaders, Cydney Woolley, as Abbey sees her reflection in the water. Abbey is a Brownie Scout. She did a great job and has a lot of fun.

This is Abbey with the girls in her unit and other units in Doha. (I don't know what you call a group of girl scouts.)

Abbey taking part in a skit. Where would the world be without girl scout and boy scout activities? Where else do you really get to act your age and get rewarded for it?

Another Field Trip

This time I joined a fellow professor on a field trip to a couple of restaurants in the old souque. A former student of his agreed to take the students to a couple or restaurants she designed. They also happen to be her husband's restaurants. She was very nice and took a lot of time with the students. Both restaurants are near completion and will open in two weeks. They were very intrigued to hear how an interior designer works in the real world.

This is a photo of the students with our host in the middle and another adjunct professor behind her. Our host is also expecting a child. Here in Doha most of the work is done on site because the art of reading architectural drawings has not been too well developed. The past few months have been difficult for her to spend so much time on site.

Even though the restaurants are not opened they are fully staffed. We were treated to what I think was Moroccan tea. I didn't drink any of course but I was fascinated by the service.

A shot of the tables outside the restaurant.

One more. I'm getting kind of artsy with the camera angles.

Here is a shot of the restoration going on at the old souque. I believe the timber pieces are original.